Maturity is often expressed in a person's ability to deal with stressful situations typical of adult life. An adult child is more likely to behave impulsively, not realizing his actions. Modern society dictates special requirements to all its members, when people need to stop being a child as soon as possible and even in their youth take their place under the sun, demonstrating decent behavior, therefore it is so important to grow up as soon as possible.
Necessary
- Clean bedroom
- Paint and brushes
- Repair supplies
- Business (work, university, etc.)
- Notebook
- Pen
Instructions
Step 1
The first step to stopping being a child is organizing your personal space. Try to rid your room of all things inappropriate for an adult - posters, plush toys, dolls, car models, etc. Paint the walls of your room in "serious" neutral colors. Leave only the most necessary furniture in the room - bed, desk, chair, wardrobe.
Step 2
Organize your wardrobe. Throw out all the worn-out sweaters loved from childhood, remove from the closet all T-shirts with "fun" applications, etc. Leave a few sets of casual clothes that make you look more serious and older. Try complementing your closet with more formal suits.
Step 3
To stop being a child, start getting up every day during "work" hours - between 7-9 am. You should be able to do it yourself, without anyone's help. Choose clothes that are suitable for your daily routine and bring them into proper condition yourself (washing, ironing).
Step 4
A mature person makes sure every day that his bed remains tucked in in the morning, independently changes bed linen, washes the dishes, cleans up his room and workplace. Choosing independence from your parents and anyone else in the organization of your life, you demonstrate your maturity. If you are unsure of how to do a particular household chore, just ask a loved one to tell you how to do it one time.
Step 5
A new way of starting the day will help you stop being a child. Cheerfully greet your family members every morning. Prepare and eat your breakfast, wash the dishes after you. If you notice that you need to remove plates or garbage from the table, do it without reminding adults.
Step 6
Practice mature behavior when someone tries to provoke you. The first reaction of your mind to such actions will be an instinctive blow, protection. However, in the event that you manage to grow up, you will react more thoughtfully to attempts to offend you.
Step 7
Accept the fact that you may not know something is a testament to your growing up. Observe the behavior of other adults and try to ask questions when you do not understand their actions, but do not abuse this opportunity. Attempts to hide their ignorance on any issue are evidence of infantilism.
