The further development of the relationship largely depends on how you talk to the guy whose location you want to achieve. You can show your interest, friendliness and desire to get to know each other better.
Instructions
Step 1
Try to smile more often - this will show your goodwill, convince the guy that you like him, and you are not averse to chatting with him at any time. A sincere smile always disposes the interlocutor, evokes a response, relaxes and disarms men.
Step 2
Hide your nervousness. This is a natural feeling that you get when you see a person you like, but it is still better to carefully mask it. Hide your hands in your pockets while walking, if they shake a little, tuck them behind your back or hold something in your hands (for example, a phone). Practice not to blush every time a guy calls you. While a little blush can help you, the beau will immediately know that you are interested in him.
Step 3
Praise the guy. Men are very sensitive to criticism and, conversely, may "melt" from your compliments. Emphasize strong character traits, admire his actions, express your respect and agreement with his opinion, etc. It is advisable to speak favorably about his merits as often as possible, especially in the presence of mutual friends and acquaintances.
Step 4
As embarrassed as you feel, you need to look your guy in the eye. If you move your eyes around the room, look at your feet or examine your hands, you may get the impression that the interlocutor is not interesting to you. Therefore, try to look into his eyes more often, showing your attention to the topic of the conversation, occasionally inserting short phrases.
Step 5
Be sure to laugh at the guy's jokes - he should feel witty, funny and interesting to talk to. Ask him to tell you funny stories, anecdotes, and share jokes.
Step 6
To show your guy that you have a lot in common, use the same words and phrases as him. This will prove that you belong to the same social circle, improve mutual understanding and bring you closer.
Step 7
Call the guy by name when referring to him. A person is pleased to hear his name, and not only diminutive expressions, which are better not to be abused. If the guy does not mind, then call him affectionately, by an abbreviated name or as his friends call him.
