Chances are, you know what can make you happy. You just don’t know how to keep this state. Is it possible to always be happy? Maybe. Moreover, our most important duty and purpose in this life is to be a happy person.
How to achieve a state of happiness? First of all, you need to say goodbye to old attitudes. The most ingrained and incorrect attitude is to think like this: "When I reach my goal, I will be happy."
The target can be anything. For example, a girl thinks: “I’ll get married, and then I’ll be happy,” in the end it comes out. Now he begins to think: "Here I will give birth to a child, then happiness will come!" But it’s wrong to think so! Or, for example, a man thinks: "I'll get this position, and then that's it, happiness!" or "I will move to another country and be a happy person." But having achieved his goal, after a fleeting joy, a person has an emptiness and confusion inside. Why is this happening? Let's figure it out.
Remember once and for all, this is a destructive and fundamentally wrong attitude - "first the goal, then happiness." Imagine that you have achieved everything now. What you most desire. Imagine that you already have wealth, fame, beauty and health. What's next? What will you desire? What do successful and wealthy people want? What do happy people want and how do they live? Ask yourself these questions.
Remember the situations when your desires and goals came true, and you did not get happiness or at least satisfaction from this, you were disappointed. When the problems for some reason remained the same, or the state of joy from the received goal quickly disappeared. This is the law of this world - the state that we call "happiness" from the goals achieved, in fact, is a weak, temporary, passing state. It is not capable of making a person happy forever! And there is no point in chasing your goals all your life, they may generally turn out to be false, imposed by someone, or simply do not bring the long-awaited happiness!
So how do you become a happy person? To understand that happiness is a special state of mind. Happiness is a resourceful state that can work miracles! Create your own reality! Every person can enter this state of happiness, joy and creativity. To do this, you need to define for yourself a new attitude - "first happiness, then a goal."
For example, a girl who has realized and accepted this concept will get married. But not just getting married, but marrying a man who suits her so much that it will be difficult to believe it! With whom she will be able to walk side by side all her life, build the right partnerships, she will be able to learn to love for real.
What is the invaluable advantage of this concept of happiness? When you are in a state of happiness, joy, you are in control of the situation. Imagine it’s your birthday, you’re at a party. Loved ones and friends are around, everyone congratulates you, you are in a joyful state, accept gifts, communicate, laugh. And suddenly someone comes up to you like that without a mood, says something not entirely pleasant to you. How do you react? Most likely, you will not even pay attention to it and soon forget about it altogether. You will certainly not sort things out! This is how the great power of this state works. This is how you need to live every day.
According to this principle, life should develop! Always be in joy, include this mystical understanding of happiness. For a person who lives in a happy state, goals begin to come true. Moreover, his true goals come true, and the false ones coming from the false ego disappear by themselves. And as a result, a fulfilled goal will not bring disappointment or emptiness! The laws of this world work in such a way that all the chances given from above begin to take shape by themselves for a happy person. He has a special vision of everything, a completely different view of what is happening, other values and principles. By themselves, the right ideas, the right words appear in my head. The environment changes, new friends come to life or old ones come back. In general, everything starts to turn out in the best possible way! Moreover, it happens absolutely fantastic, even in our wildest dreams, we cannot imagine exactly how everything will happen!
It is very important to write down all the miracles that begin to happen to you when you accept this concept of happiness in a separate notebook. In moments of disbelief or doubt, this will help you remember and make sure once again that life is completely different in this state. Magical, full, bright, fair, amazing and beautiful! Accept this "principle of joy", feel this state of happiness for yourself! And you will never want another life more, this is the most delicious and amazing thing that can happen to a person! This is the highest goal in everyone's life, and the most important purpose of any person!
