Confidence is one of the most important life skills. Most successful people are excellent at it and easily win the favor of others. But confidence is not an innate gift, but rather a life strategy.
Instructions
Step 1
Start by observing your friends and acquaintances. There is sure to be a person among them who radiates calmness and reliability. Take a closer look at him. To his manner of dressing, to gestures, gait, speech. After all, the impression that we make on others is to a large extent made up of such trifles.
Step 2
While watching movies, it is helpful to pay attention to the characters. It is important to celebrate the techniques in which unlucky and successful people are portrayed in the cinema, and then try on the manners of the movie heroes, the spoils of fate. It doesn't matter if you feel unnatural. You can imagine that you are on stage, playing your role. The moment will come when portraying a confident person will become familiar to you.
Step 3
You need to think over your wardrobe. It is better to have three or five pieces and look royal in them than a wardrobe full of clothes that do not fit well. See a professional stylist if necessary. Of course, his services are not cheap. But the result is worth it.
Step 4
Always wear clean clothes only. Perhaps this remark seems trivial. But sitting at an important meeting and thinking not about business, but about the stale collar of your shirt is a big test even for a person who is overconfident.
Step 5
It is important to be able to tune your thoughts in a positive way. Don't dwell on failures and analyze failures all the time. Better to spend energy to achieve your goals. The ability to look to the future with hope and not grieve about the past is very useful in many situations.
Step 6
Sometimes, when we set a goal, we act strange. Instead of thinking about ways to achieve it, many begin to look for reasons why this goal will never be achieved. When starting any business, you should focus on the factors that will help you and look for ways to remove obstacles.
