Very often you can hear the phrase: "Nobody loves me, everyone treats me badly." But do you love yourself? Just answer this question honestly. Do you often criticize yourself? Do you like your reflection in the mirror? Do you approve of yourself in all your actions? Now think about your answers.
Instructions
Step 1
Start pampering yourself. Get yourself a new hairstyle. Go to a beauty salon. Or set up a beauty salon at home. Get yourself a manicure. Take a bubble bath or rose petals. Light candles, pour wine or champagne. And just relax. This is the first step towards self-love.
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Step 2
Watch your appearance. If you have a habit of going out to the store in stretched sweatpants, get rid of it urgently. Of course, some women have a different opinion, they say: "For whom will I dress beautifully?" And you start dressing for yourself. Stop being lazy and start choosing your clothes more carefully (for work, cultural events and holidays). The unwillingness to paint is also related to the appearance. This does not mean that you need to do evening makeup before going to the store. A protective face cream, a little mascara and a transparent shine will be enough. Soon you will like the attention that will be given to you everywhere and always.
Step 3
Give yourself gifts. Stop saving money on yourself. Buy yourself some unnecessary item that you like. Even if it just walks around, buy it if you really want to.
Step 4
Praise yourself more often. Something happened, say to yourself: "Well done"! And if something failed, that's okay. It will turn out next time. The main thing is not to criticize yourself. There will be people who will do it for you. Don't try to be perfect, there are no perfect people. Just do what you want (within the law, of course) and what you like.
Step 5
Think back to positive statements. Stand in front of the mirror and say to yourself: “I love myself. I am the best, the most beautiful. I always succeed. Or create an affirmation yourself and repeat it every day. Even if you don't believe in the power of the word, at least try it. And you will see how positive affirmations will change your life for the better.
Start following all of these tips now. Your life will begin to change for the better only when you want it. It all depends on your thoughts. Love yourself now and the world will respond in kind.
