Masturbation is a soul-draining act that has no place in the life of a modern and successful person. Fighting masturbation is not only possible, but also quite easy.
There is no need to prove to a teenage boy or young girl that masturbation will not solve the problems that he is entrusted with getting rid of. Every person who is exposed to this harmful and destructive action wants to stop it, but not everyone succeeds in this.
How to deal with masturbation
Masturbation, or masturbation, is a completely conscious irritation of the erogenous zones in order to achieve orgasm. But pleasure is, perhaps, the last thing that pursues a person at the moment of engaging in masturbation. The vast majority of people engaged in masturbation are single people, deprived of the happiness of having their "other half." And in a similar way, namely by engaging in masturbation, they are only trying to escape the stress imposed by the thought of their own loneliness. Paradoxically, masturbation is not a consequence of loneliness. Quite the opposite, masturbation prevents a young man (which is most often) or a girl (which is quite rare) from starting to build a full-fledged relationship with a real, not an imaginary partner.
At the moment of ejaculation, along with the seminal fluid, a huge amount of vitality leaves the body of a young man, the loss of which literally prevents the young man from gaining the very halo of masculinity, which should attract the attention of the opposite sex to him. The young man becomes lazy, begins to noticeably grow stupid, loses strength and healthy male aggression. All this leads to low self-esteem, which also does not contribute to the attention from girls. Noticing the lack of female attention, he withdraws into himself, increasingly "relieving stress" with the help of masturbation. Thus, a vicious circle is created, and only the person himself can interrupt it. Otherwise, there is simply no way.
Real action to combat masturbation
Most acts of masturbation take place at night, when no one can "interfere" with this action, most often associated with watching porn. Hence the rule: observe the daily regimen, that is, go to bed early and get up early. Getting up no later than 07:00 in the morning will simply not leave the strength to wait for the time when everyone is asleep. Earlier awakening must be combined with sports. It is most correct to immediately go to the gym, because the brilliant results of physical development seen by others will push you towards self-development. A new hobby will appear, a goal that will occupy thoughts, time and energy. Changing the daily routine, the basis of which is early awakening and physical activity, above all. Indeed, over the years of engaging in masturbation, a person simply forgot how to live a full-fledged social life, when all the forces were spent on masturbation.
No one can be helped if he has not decided to help himself. Before changing the daily routine, it is best to take a notebook or create a file in Word, where it is worth describing in detail what takes masturbation out of life and what you can get by freeing yourself from this addiction. But, no matter how strong the illusion of receiving pleasure from masturbation, this is a lie to oneself. Masturbation gives absolutely nothing, it only steals.
The first positive results of liberation from masturbation will manifest themselves in a few days. Self-esteem will increase, a constantly good mood at first will simply surprise, the young man will become bolder, and the girl more feminine. After about a week, you can safely count on the interested views of the opposite sex. Success must be consolidated with the help of constant introspection, the results of which are best written down.
