Thinking about what opportunities we had in life and how many we took advantage of, many regret that they missed perhaps the best moment in life. Such regrets can be associated with many factors, but more often than not, we are stopped by fear of failure. This feeling clings tenaciously to our mind, and then we are guided in our decisions only by the fear of failure. How to learn to assess the situation soberly? How not to miss a moment of luck? How to make the right decision?
Answering the questions posed, you can write more than one huge work on the psychology of success, but you can also get by with only six points, realizing which, you get a chance not to give up in front of new fears. So, faced with a situation of choice, you must first of all block not only your fears, but also the escape routes. That is, to exclude the situation when you find an excuse for yourself under the influence of fear.
Here are the main “vouchers” options.
1. Don't pass it on to others. "I will not pass the exam because the teacher is too strict." You need to rely on your strength, knowledge and skills.
2. It may seem too unrealistic, but many refuse deliberately successful deeds, explaining this by magical powers. Damage, conspiracies, and so on should also be excluded from your arsenal of reasons for failure.
3. Success and confidence comes to people who respect themselves, know their worth and do not allow themselves to be imprinted with the seals of the past. That is, you should not think that your past sins may be the cause of your success or failure.
4. The so-called karmic myth, when you justify your fear by the total failures of your ancestors.
5. The stars and your astrological sign also cannot be the cause of your failures. This is just a reason you can calm yourself down.
Coming to the sixth point, it should be noted that the five that we have already considered are not so rare, and therefore deserve our attention, but mostly people who are more developed and independent use deeper and more conscious retreat options for themselves.
6. We will divide this point into three more and call it conditionally psychoanalytic:
- we can explain the likelihood of failure by a difficult childhood and improper upbringing, bad relationships with parents;
- today, many write that the trauma he sustained at birth affects the course of human life. We all go through a stressful journey at birth. This is comparable to trauma that imprints on our behavior. And this is also very often used by people who are unsure of their actions;
- the presence of bad heredity and everything connected with it cannot affect your life. Provided that you know and are able to control it.
