People in love look different from disinterested people. Their facial expressions and gestures, behavior and voice differ. Knowing some of the signs, from the outside, you can determine that a person is in love.
With all the efforts, it is not always possible to hide your feelings with people in love. They are given by both verbal and non-verbal signals. Moreover, for men and women, different ways of expressing feelings are characteristic. But still, some similar traits unite lovers of both sexes.
Common signs of falling in love with men and women
First of all, this is the expansion of the pupils. It occurs under the influence of the release of adrenaline into the blood, which is not surprising with strong emotions. If the pupils of the person who is looking at you are dilated, this clearly indicates his sympathy for you.
It is worth mentioning that the dilation of the pupils, in addition to sympathy for another person, can be caused by special drugs, for example, atropine. They are buried in the eyes for examination by an ophthalmologist.
The second sign that unites the strong and the weaker sex in the expression of love is a long gaze, prolonged observation of the object of passion.
Thirdly, a caring person wants to be closer to someone he likes. Touch him, enter the intimate area. To check how a person treats you, it is enough to try to break the social distance, which is at least 1 meter 25 cm. Approaching a smaller distance violates personal space. By the way a person reacts to such an intrusion, one can judge his attitude towards the “violator”.
Male manifestations of love
There is a group of gestures that can be called "male". They shout: "Look at me, pay attention!" Thumbs are placed behind the belt, the emphasis is on the genital area. At the sight of an interesting woman, a man can straighten his tie, smooth or ruffle his hair, tidy up clothes, shaking off non-existent dust particles from it.
In addition to gesticulation, a man in love is distinguished by changes in behavior. He pays much more attention to personal hygiene, shaves much more often than usual, starts going to the gym or in other ways to keep himself in shape. In addition to behavior, the voice also changes. It becomes softer and velvety.
If a man decides to act, more active methods are used. He invites a woman on a date, gives flowers, looks after. With strong excitement and lack of practical courtship skills, she can make various mistakes, getting into curious situations.
Feminine gestures
For women, their body language is designed to seduce a man. Demonstration of places, usually covered by clothes and attractive to men, is practiced. Such gestures include drawing attention to the delicate skin of the wrist area. Stroking cylindrical objects, such as the stem of a glass, can drive a man crazy.
An interested woman, sitting in front of a man she likes, can play with a shoe on her foot, putting it on and taking it off. This is an imitation of sexual intercourse, which causes a man's subconscious arousal. At the same time, her legs are much farther from one another than usual.
The woman's gait also changes. Her hips swing more than usual when she walks. This creates the illusion of wide hips, even if they are rather narrow by nature or as a result of diets.
Clothes become sexier and more revealing. Much more attention is paid to hair and jewelry than before. Lipstick gets brighter, maybe lip licking. Red and moist lips beckon a man, as they cause an association with female genitals.
Women can use the "masculine" gesture of putting their fingers in the belt. But at the same time, only one finger falls into the belt, pocket or purse.
For seduction, women can also use their voice. They deliberately lower it, making it more pleasing to the male ear.
