We all want personal happiness, and without a loved one, it is impossible. We all want to meet our soul mate, to love and be loved - this is a normal human desire. However, there are people who meet girls only for the sake of collecting their "victories" - these are pickup artists. Mostly these are young people, although recently they began to talk about a women's pickup.
Wikipedia has this interpretation of the pickup: eng. pick up - inf. get to know, and the pickup artist (pickup) is an experienced seducer, a pickup master. Recently, there are many men who meet a girl only for the purpose of seduction, without planning a long-term relationship. They simply collect their victories, throwing the "victim" after they manage to drag her into bed, and immediately look for the next one. They are trained in special courses, take advanced training seminars and gain experience in practice.
There are already several opinions in society about the pickup:
- Science of seduction
- A game between a man and a woman
- Moral licentiousness
For some reason, the pickupers themselves consider themselves to be real men. However, experts in the field of interpersonal relations believe that a man's strength lies not in the number of women seduced, but in his deeds. After all, it is not so difficult to learn how to flutter from party to party, seducing girls with a fashionable outfit and biceps who do not impede themselves morally. It is much more difficult to build real relationships and take responsibility for creating a family, for continuing a kind. A real man is engaged in real business, he respects women and is ready to take responsibility for his actions. With such a man, a woman always feels protected, and this is the main thing.
Once in one group of different ages at the training the following question was asked: "What qualities of a man are especially valued?" The men themselves were the first to answer, and they named the following qualities:
- Mind
- Force
The female half of the group called responsibility the most necessary quality for a companion. This cannot be attributed to the type of male pick-up artists - how can you then call them men at all? Another thing is that the girls themselves agree to such a dubious relationship, because they dream of a prince and see him in this well-groomed gigolo. They look at external attributes, not internal content. And how can this content be considered in the short time that a pick-up artist determines for himself to pick up another victim?
It is clear that in our time everyone lives in accordance with their worldview, and it is stupid to condemn anyone. However, we are not talking about the condemnation of pick-up artists, because in fact these are unhappy people - notorious and oppressed, who with each conquered girl are forced to prove to themselves that they are real men. Their life is like a race for self-affirmation and a pursuit of dubious fame.
Most girls are tuned in to deep relationships, to create a family. A pick-up artist is set up to deceive - this is real selfishness. Some of them are not averse to the girl paying for them in a cafe and should be happy that he slept with her. Moreover, many pick-up artists now use dubious methods that suppress the will of a girl, in particular, NLP (neuro-linguistic programming), when with the help of special "adjustments" and stamped beautiful phrases they rub into the confidence of the interlocutor.
Therefore, girls must be vigilant and be able to distinguish a pickup artist from a normal young man. After all, if you look at sexual intercourse from the point of view of energy, it becomes clear that each of them leads to a strong energy surge, during which there is an exchange of energy, information, karma, fate between partners. And the pick-up is a drain hole from everything that he received during sex with many girls. In such a situation, he cannot expect that he will have healthy children and that he himself will maintain his health.
The most important human need is to start a family, so that you will be surrounded by loving people, so that your family will continue. And the pick-up artist spends so much precious time on illusion - he constantly proves that he is a super-hero. A true relationship should be built on mutual respect, sincerity and love.
