The most popular reason spouses cite when divorcing is character dissimilarity. This often hides the partners' inability to find a common language, to listen to and understand each other. Family psychologists advise to discuss emerging problems with each other more, and not to quarrel and be offended.
Instructions
Step 1
If in a conversation with your husband you want to explain that he is wrong, then get ready to calmly and balancedly convey to him your point of view, in the correctness of which you must be 100% sure. Prepare for a conversation, think over logical evidence. In a dispute, do not raise your voice, do not get personal and, moreover, insult. Demonstrate respect for your opponent and demand that you do the same.
Step 2
Behave confidently and do not provoke your husband, exclude the phrases: "I want to prove my case" or "I want to argue with you." They immediately set him up for opposition and are perceived as a challenge, after which he feels that he must express the opposite point of view and defend it. Better to say: "Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems to me … because …".
Step 3
You can subtly force him to read the arguments that prove you are right on the Internet or in print. Give specific examples that you are the one who is right. If, for example, we are talking about legal nuances, give a link to the relevant laws.
Step 4
Almost all sources of your literary or historical disputes, others, where your points of view on a fact differ, you can easily find with the help of Internet search engines and not bring the matter to silly conflicts. You should not start arguments on every occasion, it is better to just keep silent, but then, having secured convincing evidence, return to this topic.
Step 5
Do not try to prove your superiority out of an argument. When explaining, show that you are ready to listen to his evidence or refutation of your words. You should not demonstrate complete confidence that you are right, even if you know you are. Conduct the conversation tactfully, without infringing on male pride. In this case, his agreement with your arguments will not seem like surrender.
Step 6
And do not start arguing if you are not sure that you are right. If your husband is confronted several times in a row with the fact that you are arguing without being right, he will cease to perceive you as an authority, and will not take seriously your attempts to persuade him.
