In the modern world, many need to be able to lie. Not necessarily for any questionable or illegal purpose. Often they lie for good or for salvation, in order to calm down an overly suspicious person, not to give reasons for jealousy to loved ones, to negotiate with their superiors or business partners.
Always think through your lies ahead of time. Try to provide answers to all possible questions, work out the details of your story. Think about what facts can serve as evidence of the truth of your statements. A lie invented in advance always looks more believable and the chances of failure will be less. Just in case of failure, you can come up with a fallback that is closer to the truth.
Try to sincerely believe in what you have come up with. So that it would not occur to anyone that they are being deceived. Imagine yourself as an actor who must play his role superbly, get used to it, become one with it.
Remember that under existing legislation, perjury, libel and defamation are punishable by measures up to and including criminal liability.
If possible, research in advance who you will be cheating. Try to understand the psychology of the "victim", find an individual approach to it. Unfamiliar people tend to be distrustful and wary of conversation. It is more difficult to deceive them than friends and relatives. In this case, start feeding lies in small portions, carefully monitoring the interlocutor. It is important not to overdo it: alternate between false and true facts.
Do not let yourself be caught
If the interlocutor begins to guess about deception, distract him with something. Start asking him about irrelevant details, turn the conversation to an abstract topic, tell an interesting story or anecdote. Counterattack if your opponent has already begun to directly accuse you of lying. Take the situation into your own hands, prove, give pre-thought arguments.
The easiest way is to lie over the phone or in person. It is more difficult - on the Internet or in correspondence, since in these cases the addressee can always save letters or messages.
Always remember the little things you lie. This is a difficult but necessary condition for every successful liar. Be consistent by deceiving many people or by committing a series of deceptions. You can even write down all the facts of the deception. And, when you come up with the next lie, do not forget that deceived people can exchange information with each other. In order for them not to reveal the deception, the information they have must be consistent and not have conflicting details.
Gestures and facial expressions
Watch your gestures and facial expressions. Reassure yourself that you should not feel guilty or fearful about deceiving others. Look at the other person boldly and openly in the same way as you would normally look at others when speaking the truth. Practice the correct look in advance. Do not cross your arms or legs, do not make unnecessary and meaningless movements that may betray lies or unnecessary anxiety.
Lie in a firm, confident and loud voice. Practice it ahead of time too. Do not stutter, do not get better, do not get confused - speak as if written, without jabbering. If during a conversation you smile at the interlocutor, try to make the smile look correct, that is, it is natural and sincere.
