What are the signs in a conversation to determine whether a person is lying to you or not?
There are many techniques for distinguishing between falsehood and truth. The main ones are based on the observation of facial expressions and gestures. If you learn to read them correctly in your interlocutor, you can find out if he is lying to you or not. But if he has concentration and self-control, then you are unlikely to succeed. Unless you're just as attentive and focused.
In any case, remember that it is always more difficult for a liar than for you, in the sense that he experiences some discomfort, as he feels that there is a possibility of his exposure. If he is in complete control of his gestures, which is not easy, but feasible, then he will probably make mistakes in speech easier with the help of your leading questions.
So, the person who is trying to deceive you is trying in every possible way to divert your attention from the essence of the conversation, diluting his speech with useless facts in order to be more convincing and, as it seems to him, to present to our attention a more believable picture.
When your opponent often uses words from your question in conversation, this indicates that he is not being honest with you. Also, if he turns a serious conversation into a joke, you should know that he is trying to lie to you. Also, by the rate of speech, you can tell that he is lying to you. If speech with frequent changes in tempo and intonation, pauses, then the person is insincere.
Expressing violent emotions usually indicates that your opponent is trying to cover up his true motives and divert your attention. Follow your gaze. If a person often looks away during a conversation, then he is lying to you. I hope these observations will help you bring clarity to your interactions with people you suspect of being insincere with you.
