No one wants to be deceived, but it is often unpleasant to be surprised at the unexpectedly emerging lie. We advise you to learn the language of facial expressions and gestures, and then you will be able to protect yourself from unscrupulous people and avoid unpleasant consequences.
Instructions
Step 1
Hands and face are the main objects of your observation. If the interlocutor constantly touches the ear and fiddles with the lobe, you should doubt his honesty.
Step 2
You should be embarrassed by any regular touching of your face, such as your nose, your eyebrows, and especially your lips. The liar often covers his mouth with his hands, touches it with his fingers.
Step 3
Combing hair, nerve twisting of strands, pulling and other manipulations with hair give out nervous tension in a person, fear to open up, doubts.
Step 4
Pay attention to the biting of lips, nails, areas of skin on the hands - your interlocutor is again preparing to lie to you.
Step 5
Liars tend to constantly adjust their clothes. These can be shirt collars, cuffs, laces. To do this, he can go to the mirror several times during the evening, peer at his reflection, as if to look out for something, to search in himself.
Step 6
If the interlocutor touches the objects around him, rearranges, most likely, they are lying to you. Often a person can twist some thing in his hands, for example, a box, while peering into it countless times, opening and closing it.
Step 7
An unnatural smile on a person's face, as well as any uncharacteristic emotion, can betray a lie. Often, such a manifestation of emotions is more like a grimace and immediately catches the eye.
Step 8
Crossing arms and legs is a common closed pose, which means not only a reluctance to open up, but also a possible lie.
Step 9
A liar, as a rule, averts or covers his eyes, tries not to meet the views of others. If he tries to disguise his lies and seem sincere, he suddenly begins to stare into his eyes, not taking them away for a second. This is a kind of demonstrative gesture "Look into my eyes, I'm honest!"
Step 10
Often the liar's gestures are inconsistent with each other, for example, answering negatively, he may nod his head in a positive direction.
Step 11
If the first reaction that surfaced on the face after your words does not match the subsequent answer, be sure that this person is deceiving you, and the first emotion reflects his real attitude.
Step 12
The presence of some objects between you, for example, a vase of flowers, indicates hiding something from you.
Step 13
Broken hands, snapping fingers, twisting wrists, nervously tapping a foot on the floor, trembling knees are direct indications of a lie. The person is worried and unable to hide his dishonesty. Be careful with him and take the position of an observer, then you can see many more interesting external manifestations of the lying person.