Lying is very common. Almost all people lie almost daily. There can be many reasons for deception: to "get off the water" or in order to profit, there is also a lie "for the good" or with the aim of embellishing something. A detector - body language - will help you recognize the truth.
Instructions
Step 1
The fact is that when a person lies, the non-verbal signals of his body immediately "betray" him. These signs manifest as nervousness, defensive gestures, or otherwise. The most noticeable symptom is severe sweating (sweat on the forehead, sweaty hands), as well as small body tremors, which can be transmitted by speech (when the person responds with a trembling voice). These signs can indicate a fear of possible exposure of a deception.
Step 2
Another sign of a lie is frequent blinking or "running" gaze. The liar is afraid that his eyes will "betray" him.
Step 3
When a person wants to hide a lie behind ostentatious sincerity, he is "betrayed" by an exaggeratedly sincere look, raised eyebrows, etc. signs of "excessive" sincerity.
Step 4
You can also identify a liar by an unnatural or "forced" smile when a person tries to "squeeze" it out of himself in order to create a favorable impression and deceive the interlocutor's vigilance. But a crooked smile, which may seem charming, betrays a person prone to lying. This is especially true for people whose mouth is stretched to the right side. This means that the person carefully controls his emotions and works for the public. Another sign of lying is mouth twitching.
Step 5
Rubbing or rubbing the tip of the nose or earlobe is also a sign that the other person is lying. Also, a liar may fiddle with his hair or hide his hands, not knowing where to put them.
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When a woman lies, she begins to put herself in order: makeup, hair, etc. A man usually straightens his laces, tie, collar, watch. Or a person, deceiving you, can pretend to put things in order. Thus, he seems to be trying to hide his lie behind the order.
Step 7
Pay attention also to the position of the corpus of the interlocutor whom you want to check for falsity. A sign of a lie can be swinging the body back and forth, left and right. Or the interlocutor often changes posture ("fidgets" on the chair), or he "pulls" the body back, as if he wants to move away and thereby protect himself from you.
Step 8
Lips can also be a lie detector. For example, if a person licks their lips (which means they are dry) or teeth. Also, signs of nervousness that indicate a lie - biting lips or nails, or frequent coughing.
Step 9
A person's protective gestures can also tell about a possible lie. For example, if he covers his mouth or throat with his hand, or crosses his limbs - arms and legs.
Step 10
If your interlocutor smokes, pay attention to how often he "puffs" while smoking. Frequent puffs can be another sign of a lie.
Step 11
To read body language, you need observation, analysis, and intuition. In addition, you need to understand that not necessarily any of these signs indicate the lie of your interlocutor. For example, a person may be simply shy or anxious, frequent blinking may be caused by a nervous illness, and a cough may appear from a simple sore throat, etc. Another important point - "body language" betrays people who do not know how to lie, who lie from time to time and are ashamed of their lies. A pathological liar, devoid of conscience, or simply able to lie to a person with the help of sign language, "calculate" is unrealistic. There are many known cases when liars "led by the nose" even experienced employees … let's say, special forces, and also deceived a device known as a "lie detector". In such cases, the liar can be identified by facial features using physiognomy, as well as by the aura - but this is a separate topic.
