Another person can never be fully understood. It's like a foreign language, a foreign culture - you can know the facts well, but understanding is another matter. But you can feel it. But for this you need to make no less effort.
Instructions
Step 1
To feel a person, you need to be on the same wavelength with him. To be on the same wavelength with him, you need to know him. Therefore, first of all, pay attention to his hobbies, to those thoughts that occupy him when he has free time. Try to think about what he thinks and the way he thinks. To do this, of course, you need to be close to the person and be with him at least in friendship. It is unlikely that you will be able to correctly feel a person who is far from you and does not strive for rapprochement.
Step 2
The next stage is the human soul, no matter how brutal it may sound. You need to realize what a person is - he is kind, irritable, unpredictable. Try to get into the most secret corners of a person's soul, but so that he does not notice. As the operation is performed under anesthesia, so in our case, the vigilance of the "victim" must be put to sleep. And how can a person be called a "victim" here? After all, if you are trying to "feel" a person, just to feel, and not to learn, for example, about the motives of his actions and plans, then you treat him only positively and wish only good.
Step 3
Pay attention to how he treats other people. Often a person suddenly destroys all the established ideas about him in one moment - from a quiet person he turns into a real devil, from a talkative, cheerful bully into a sad pessimist. See what is his attitude towards animals, towards children, towards the elderly. After all, these are creatures that are weaker than him, and in the way he treats them, many character traits appear that you may not even have suspected of.
Step 4
Finally, pay attention to what films he watches, what books he reads. Try asking what he sees in the books and films that fascinate him. Read and see for yourself, pay attention to them and you will not regret: often what a person is interested in tells much more about him than he himself would ever dare to tell even the closest friend. Observe also how he gets carried away with all this: does his hobbies reach fanaticism, or does everything remain within fairly reasonable limits? Think about how you would behave.
Step 5
And, of course, the best way to feel a person is to become close to him, to make him the "most important" thing in life. Sometimes it takes years, as, for example, for some spouses. Some, and becoming with each other on the same wavelength, diverge, giving their relationship another chance. A person's feelings are a very slippery area, and even the smallest step to the side, or too rough footfall, or delay, vegetation in place, can threaten with irreversible consequences. Be careful as with the most expensive crystal.
