It is sometimes difficult for cute and interesting girls to fight off persistent fans who can pester with their messages on the Internet, sms and calls. In these cases, a firm refusal should be given in such a way that the guy falls behind.
Instructions
Step 1
Don't ignore messages, calls, and other courtesies from a fan, as this is unlikely to stop their attempts to attract attention and can only provoke more. But at the same time, do not rush to contact and respond to every message. Take action if the guy calls you for the second or third time.
Step 2
See what the fan wants. Most often, young people turn to girls with an offer to meet or meet. Thus, they want to start a future serious relationship. Also, the guy can be tuned in to ordinary, friendly communication. But there are also all kinds of obscene offers and even threats that need to be stopped first.
Step 3
If a guy just wants to communicate and be friends with you, write or tell him by phone that at the moment you are not interested in friendship. Supplement your refusal with one or more reasons. Say that you are quite happy with your friends and do not want to expand your social circle. You can also refer to being very busy or lack of common interests, for example, if a guy wrote to you on a social network and you have the opportunity to view his page.
Step 4
When you receive an offer to meet and start a love relationship, feel free to answer that your heart is already taken, even if it is not. If the guy turned out to be too persistent, explain that he does not fit your ideal, and you are not satisfied with his appearance, character, interests, etc.
Step 5
To obscene offers and threats, threaten the interlocutor in response that such acts are prosecuted, and if he does not stop them, you will transfer the correspondence to law enforcement agencies. You can also add that you will write a complaint to the administration of the resource where the communication takes place, or inform the operator of the cellular network.
