Jealousy is considered a negative character trait. However, there is no relationship without her, even if the person claims that he is not jealous. Each must have this trait. Is the statement "Jealous means in love" not without thoroughness?
When relations arise, even superficial ones, when there are no confessions of love and fidelity to each other, it always hurts very much if you see your chosen one next to another person. And if there is an oath in that very love and fidelity! Maybe the feeling of jealousy can be compared to the feeling of ownership - it's just mine! There is another side, when a person is completely indifferent to the manifestations of the attention of his chosen one to other women (men). That is, he does not feel jealous at all, which means he is very confident in himself, or he does not care. He is simply indifferent to his chosen one.
The difference between male and female jealousy
Male and female jealousy are completely two different concepts. A woman who sees that other female representatives are paying attention to her man has many thoughts: a rival may turn out to be more interesting or prettier; why is he looking at her; he must only look at me; maybe they know each other. It is unlikely that it would occur to her that her gentleman is simply gallant and she is lucky that he belongs only to her. And outwardly, she will not show even the appearance that she is jealous, perhaps only slightly hints.
A man who sees that other men are paying attention to his chosen one will think: look, look she is mine (if there are no other reasons to pay attention: a frank neckline, a very short skirt, a transparent blouse or other bright manifestations of appearance).
How to deal with jealousy? And is it necessary?
Necessarily! If the relationship is important for both, it is imperative to discuss the boundaries beyond which you can offend your chosen one. Perhaps for one, light flirting does not matter at all, while for another it implies a collapse of trust. Dealing with jealousy requires each other's love and trust. Be attentive to your chosen one and perhaps an insignificant sign of attention, an affectionate word or compliment will extinguish the raging fire of jealousy.
