Only by falling in love with people, we will be able to always find a common language with them, and our life, of course, will become fuller, more interesting and happier. But finding love for a stranger in oneself is not so easy, and it will cost a lot of mental and mental strength.
Instructions
Step 1
Never make premature judgments about anyone. If a person does not behave very nicely, do not rush to call him a boor or rude. Putting yourself in the place of another helps in this, but you understand that you may not be very nice in different life situations. A bad day, a quarrel with loved ones, illness - all this can spoil the character for a while, but in no way will make a negative character out of a person for life.
Step 2
Recognize that all people are different, and none of them can fully correspond to either you or some abstract norm. Absolutely different characters, temperaments, habits, different upbringing and environment. If you do not like something in a person, this does not always mean that something is wrong with him, most likely, he is just another, completely unfamiliar world to you.
Step 3
Despite the fact that in every person there may be those qualities that are unacceptable to you in any form, there are also positive aspects in him, and there is no need to doubt this. For example, a creepy, at first glance, gossip can be the only one who will not leave you in trouble and help you cope with difficulties. A closed and harsh person can turn out to be surprisingly honest and responsible person.
Step 4
Often, the very thing that annoys us in others is also in us. You think that your colleague is too sloppy and tasteless - pay attention to yourself, perhaps you also have these qualities. Start to correct them in yourself, and over time you will stop paying attention to others in this context.
Step 5
Remember that almost always a judgment made about a person with whom you are not in a close relationship is the result of your speculation and imagination. Few people have the ability to see a person like through an X-ray machine, so don't even try. Your first impression has a right to exist, but it will remain with this first impression; you should not elevate it to an absolute and attribute it to another person.
Step 6
Love and respect for people comes from love for yourself. If you do not love yourself, do not expect this feeling for others, everything is reflected according to the principle of a mirror. You are critical of yourself, you are just as intolerant of everyone else. Love yourself, recognize your uniqueness and value, that you are amazing and beautiful, and then you will understand that the same are the other people around you in this big world.
