Often, for men who are not very well versed in relationships or are used to hiding their emotions, the diagnosis of "falling in love" becomes a serious problem. It is important to understand your feelings in time: this will help you avoid a fatal mistake and not lose your beloved.
The main signs of falling in love
Track your thoughts for a few days and note how often you think about the girl. If you remember her occasionally, and even then when certain associations associated with her arise, it is hardly a question of falling in love. If you think about a girl often, wake up and fall asleep with tender thoughts about her, most likely you already have strong feelings. A good "marker" of falling in love is the ability of the brain to turn most of the phenomena and objects into an additional reason to dream about a woman. For example, seeing a flower stall, you may think about what kind of bouquet your darling would like.
A man in love begins to automatically make plans for at least the near future, moreover, in each of them his chosen one is certainly present. Thoughts appear on the topics "where we will go to rest", "where we will live together." These plans can be both ephemeral and momentary, and clear, detailed - it all depends only on the characteristics of a man's character and his perception of the world. A cautious person, who has already had the misfortune to go through a problematic relationship, begins, making plans for the future, to think in addition to the features of the candy-flower period and life together after it, to choose options for behavior that will help avoid quarrels and parting in the future.
Falling in love often inspires. A man may have a keen desire to do something good for a girl: write a poem, compose a song, give a bouquet of flowers, make an adornment with his own hands. And even if the poet and musician of him is bad, and he is not a master at doing beautiful things, such trifles will fade before the desire to make his beloved pleasant.
Simple tests to determine if you are in love
If you are still unsure of your feelings, do some simple experiments. First, observe how you feel when texting with a girl you like. Are you waiting for her message, are you constantly looking through your mail or phone, are you worried, are you thinking about dialogue options? When communicating one-on-one, falling in love can manifest itself even more clearly: a man becomes withdrawn or, on the contrary, overly talkative. The heartbeat quickens, excitement appears, thoughts get confused, and sometimes the phrase "What am I doing ?!" can even slip through my head.
One more option can be added to the above two options: prioritization. Think about what choice you will make if a girl agrees to go on a date with you, but at the same time, friends will schedule a trip to a bar, to a sports match or other event that will be of personal interest to you. If you choose to date a girl unconditionally, chances are you are in love.
