In the life of almost every guy, love failures happen. And if the feelings are really strong, it will take some time to stop loving the girl you love. However, there are methods that help speed up this process.
Instructions
Step 1
To begin with, let's talk about what you shouldn't do when trying to stop loving a girl - go into a binge and act according to the method of "knocking out a wedge by a wedge". Drinking will not help extinguish the experience. On the contrary, for many, it aggravates depression. In addition, being carried away by this process, it is very easy to get drunk. The "wedge by wedge" method will also bring nothing but superficial acquaintances. As a result, they will only intensify the longing for her, because all the girls around them will seem “not like that”.
Step 2
Now about where to start. With a desire to stop loving the girl you love. Oddly enough, but many people tormented by love do not take this step. It is possible that they simply do not understand that their desire can change something. Meanwhile, it is crucial. In order to qualitatively formulate your desire, take a time when no one will bother you, and think about what your unrequited feeling deprives you: self-respect, good mood, time, the opportunity to build new relationships, and so on. Having realized this, firmly tell yourself that you are going to stop loving the girl you love and live a happy, fulfilling life without her.
Step 3
After that, have the courage to part with everything that reminds you of your beloved girl: her photos, gifts, things she forgot. Erase “your” song from the player's memory, do not re-watch movies that you once watched together. Remove her from your contacts on social networks, erase her phone numbers. It will not be easy to do this, but after that you will feel that you are firmly on the path of liberation from the feelings that hinder you.
Step 4
Likewise, avoid meeting and talking with the girl, as well as with her girlfriends, friends, and those people with whom you are used to talking about her.
Step 5
Having done everything so that the traces of your beloved girl disappear from your horizons, occupy all the time of your life to the extent that there is not even a minute left to bump into the thought of her. Take on a new project at work, sign up for the sports section, make new friends, find new activities. Let your life be different from what it was with her. At the same time, the main thing is to enjoy this new life. If you control yourself well, love will fade pretty quickly.
