Psychologists often refer to men and women as beings from different planets. It really looks like the truth - they are so different! And it often happens that one of them's feelings flare up like a candle, while the other - they slightly smolder. How to make the person you like to love yourself?
Instructions
Step 1
To be able to make a person love, start with yourself. Nobody likes people who are overly busy, resentful, sad, angry, or boring. Assess yourself honestly - do you have such traits. If so, make an effort and do not show them in the presence of the object of adoration. However, you should not go to the other extreme, for example, into unrestrained fun. Behave naturally, adequately to the situation, do not "load" your problems - at the early stage of the relationship it is inappropriate.
Step 2
What can alienate a loved one? Sloppiness, insincerity, obsession. An attempt to make a loved one jealous will also be perceived extremely negatively. By doing this, you will strike him a sensitive blow and, most likely, cross out everything that you have already managed to achieve.
Step 3
Show him the joy of your meeting. Praise your loved one, give him compliments - both men and women love to receive them. Again, don't overdo it. Merit should be real, not far-fetched. Listen carefully when your loved one talks about himself - so you will find out the information of interest and even more endear him to yourself.
Step 4
Take an interest in business, the mood of your loved one. Be aware of his interests, desires, tastes. This does not mean that you need to constantly please him, but in the case when it is necessary, you can bring joy to your beloved. It will be appropriate to show attention and please when your soul mate is upset about something or does not feel well.
Step 5
Always be well-groomed, attractive and sexy. Demonstrate the pleasure you get from your sexual intercourse. This is one of the most powerful psychological tricks - people love those to whom they bring joy and avoid those who are hurt.
Step 6
Sometimes it is worth demonstrating your independence as well. Give your partner freedom - nothing holds a person down like the feeling that he can leave at any moment. As an extreme method, if all else fails and you can't make a person fall in love, you can try to leave yourself. In this case, the feeling of ownership can work and you will definitely be returned. If this did not happen, do not be upset. So it was not your man. And you will definitely meet someone who is meant for you!
