The question is rather controversial. It is not possible to please everyone. Some are attracted by good upbringing and education, others by their cheerful disposition and mobility. However, researchers at one of the British universities have identified common features that make a person interesting to most people around him. Let's get to know them.
- It has long been an established fact that people are drawn to positive and uplifting personalities. Therefore, if you want to make a good impression on someone and maintain a leading position, train your sense of humor. You do not need to study collections of anecdotes for this. Just develop your observation skills, your horizons and keep a good mood. And chance itself will tell you a good joke.
- Often, after the collapse of a popular musical group, the work of its individual members ceases to be attractive to fans. Former glory fades. Researchers have found that a person looks more attractive in a team, team, company of friends. The reason lies in the perception of the human brain. Therefore, do not refuse joint trips with friends to a bar, cinema and other public places.
- … This item is relevant for those who are going on a first date. If it is important for you to please, and not scare away, discard banal conversations about the weather, personal observations, problems in social spheres. Let the other person talk about themselves and their tastes. Scientists say that in such moments of frankness, the same parts of the brain are activated in a person as when eating delicious food or even making love. Thus, your interlocutor will subconsciously feel sympathy for you.
- When talking with acquaintances or those who want to please, try not to cross your arms and legs, no matter what position you are in (sitting or standing) An open posture demonstrates your self-confidence, and therefore makes you more attractive to others.
- A person's appearance also affects self-confidence and attractiveness. Monitor the condition of your skin, hair and teeth. These are the three points that most people pay attention to. In order to be attractive, you need to be in sight, smile a lot. Therefore, everything in you should be harmonious and neat.
- … In communication, people are almost always drawn to those with whom they are similar. Therefore, even with an incomplete set of positive qualities, you should not put on a mask and pretend to be someone else, more ideal and successful. Be yourself, be an individual with your convictions and whims, and people will definitely reach out to you.
