A person's talents and success are largely determined by their ability to communicate. Personal qualities, charisma and individual style play an important role in this. But what if you grew up a notorious, closed and stingy person with polite words? After all, in order to succeed in this life, openness and charm are needed. How to become attractive to people?
Instructions
Step 1
Get rid of complexes. Be confident in yourself. You may need to consult a psychologist for this, but this is necessary. Every day, going to the mirror, say that you are the most charming person and you will definitely succeed.
Step 2
When speaking, try to express your thoughts clearly and clearly. Think carefully about your speech before saying something important and responsible. The people around you should want to hear and listen to what you say to them. Know how to deftly use the power of words.
Step 3
Read more and discover something new, develop. An interesting and intelligent person is always in the center of attention and attracts those around him.
Step 4
You must be able to adequately respond to difficulties in relationships. Do not show aggression and anger in public. Don't publicly insult others. This can alienate them and leave a negative impression of you.
Step 5
Be empathetic and understanding towards other people. Everyone has worries and problems that are sometimes very difficult to cope with. Strive to help loved ones with good advice or deed. Do not skimp on kind words.
Step 6
Good manners have not hurt anyone yet. Respond to rudeness with courtesy and calmness. Kind words and attitude will create a pleasant, attractive image for you.
Step 7
If you can do something and help in some way, do it. But words should not be at odds with deeds.
Step 8
If you witness a conflict between other people, try, as far as possible and necessary, to intervene and resolve it. Defuse the atmosphere with positive energy and words.
Step 9
A sense of humor can be the highlight of your style and image. Don't be afraid to joke. The main thing is that your jokes are appropriate and really funny.
Step 10
Add more colors and emotions to your life and image. Bright people are an object of attention and admiration. You should not bury yourself in the routine of everyday life. Be active, relax and enjoy life. Your inner light will, like a magnet, attract others.
