Sometimes the kind words of loved ones are not enough to achieve success. Your friend is planning an important business, and you do not know how to support him? Follow simple guidelines and your shared inspiration will ensure the success of any, even the most difficult, venture.
Instructions
Step 1
Believe in your friend's success not only in words, offer your help. He may be just embarrassed to ask you for support, but rest assured, he needs it. Ignore the bravado, real help will inspire him to the most daring accomplishments.
Step 2
Praise! Admire his achievements, do not feel sorry for warm words, even if in fact you have something to criticize him for. Put off sarcasm for later, now the main thing is to let the person know that he can move mountains. Nothing boosts self-esteem like genuine admiration.
Step 3
Do you still have serious doubts that your friend's idea is really successful? Tell him about this only if you have constructive suggestions, about which it is simply unreasonable to remain silent. Be correct, avoid harsh phrases like “this is no good,” “the idea is bad,” etc.
Step 4
Give your friend a little rest, especially if you see that he is literally exhausted. It is necessary to distract from problems, otherwise a nervous breakdown is inevitable. Invite him out of town, to the dacha, or just get out to the cinema. After a respite, the path to your goal will not seem overwhelming.
Step 5
Draw his attention to the success stories of other people who have achieved everything, despite the disbelief of others, or even outright intrigues on the part of spiteful critics. Tell him that the goal is worth pursuing and that his efforts will not be in vain. You just need to drop fear and go forward, believing in yourself.
Step 6
Tell a friend that there are always difficulties in achieving success, and so far no one has been able to avoid them. And you do not expect an immediate triumph, and in case of temporary difficulties, you will not reproach him. Make it clear that he can turn to you for support in any case, even if the whole world is against you two.
Step 7
To inspire a friend or just an acquaintance to a difficult but important task, to give strength in a seemingly hopeless situation, you need very little. Do not regret your participation and kindness, sincerely wish for success. And he will not keep himself waiting.
