The need to feel protected is essential after the need for sleep, food and drink. A person often feels vulnerable in the face of sudden, threatening events. Stability in key areas will help you gain confidence in your life.
Instructions
Step 1
There are usually 3 areas of life most vulnerable: financial, professional, and personal relationships. To feel secure, take some action in each one. For many people, they are interconnected: for example, friendship with partners supports business, and income depends on success in business. Do not absolutize the financial sphere, even significant funds cannot always solve problems.
Step 2
In the field of finance, unpopular measures will have to be taken - to cut costs. In fact, everyone has a shortage of money, so it is difficult for people of all income levels to set aside 10-20% of what they earn. Set aside this money for three purposes: protection against force majeure, retirement and the fulfillment of desires. In what proportion to distribute funds - it depends only on you. Experts recommend saving enough money to live with a certain level of comfort for 3-6 months. In this case, losing your job will not be a disaster for you.
Step 3
Set aside some of the money for the coming old age. How exactly to invest them so as not to lose is a question for financial experts, read about this in books, for example, by David Bach. And the most pleasant share of the accumulated money is for a dream. Maybe you want to buy a new yogurt maker, or maybe you want to educate your children or grandchildren abroad. The speed of approaching the target depends on your ability to save money. However, the very fact that you are getting closer to your dream will warm your soul and improve your mood.
Step 4
In the area of professional qualities, study, constantly master new skills and read new literature in your specialty. Every day write yourself a development plan, carry it out - and you will be sure that you will find a job with any changes in the world.
Step 5
Personal relationships are the hardest area. When it comes to marriage partners, don't let your loved one get bored. A large number of families break up due to banal boredom. Such relationships arise because one of the partners or both do not want to work on themselves and develop. Try to stay interesting, look for new common hobbies. And then you will not be left alone, even if it does not work out with this person. You will have to work in any of the areas, but the feeling of security should not stop you and be a reason for stagnation. Search and become more confident.
