For many, February 14 is an empty mockery. While everyone is walking by the hands and giving each other valentines, you stand alone, and not a single girl pays attention to you. Of course, love is not built on instant infatuation, and you need to love a person as he is. But in order to attract this other person, maybe you need to work on yourself?..
Instructions
Step 1
The first thing to look out for is the style of dress. Remember the saying - they are greeted according to their clothes, but they are seen off according to their minds? So in seducing girls, clothing is a very important component. Take some time for yourself: walk around the mall, ask the consultants in the boutiques - believe me, there are some very polite, experienced people among them who are professionally versed in fashion. They will tell you how to change your image, what to buy. However, do not rely entirely on their opinion, so that one day you will not turn into a dummy from a shop window. You also need your creativity, your individuality, because only this can make you interesting in the eyes of girls.
Step 2
The second essential trait of a ladies' man is self-confidence. It's done, you say, because good clothes and the right perfume bring confidence. But it's not only that. Self-confidence can also be developed when you are wearing a tattered sweater and worn-out boots. Charm cannot be formed by any external adjustments - it must come from within. Look around and watch the successful men on the love front: are they all draped in Dior suits, are all sprinkled with Hugo Boss perfume? Not at all. They just know their worth. Learn this and you.
Step 3
The next important step is working on your speech. It may sound unimportant, but put yourself in the shoes of a girl: would you like to listen to a guy who chatters, making a bunch of mistakes and profusely inundating his speech with foul language? I do not think. So figure it out, firstly, with your articulation (speaking beautifully is an art quite worthy of learning it), and secondly, with your vocabulary. There are, of course, such ladies who themselves are not averse to swearing, but believe me, even they will not like this behavior on the part of a young man, for example, in a restaurant or club. Moreover, an eloquent man will find himself a lady much better and more interesting than those who do not disdain "strong" expressions.
Step 4
We have worked on the outer side of the matter - speech - now we need to fill it with the appropriate content. Erudition is one of the most charming traits of a man, believe me. But this erudition must be used skillfully, like an expensive seasoning: throw a pinch into a dish where charm and style are already located, but for God's sake do not overdo it - do not oversalt and pepper, otherwise the girl will simply choke and will not want to eat. One must be careful with being well-read and educated: no one likes it when (intentionally or unintentionally) he is "crushed" by his intellect. Learn to be interesting, but also unobtrusive at the same time. And do not throw in the details of your professional life - the girl, perhaps, is more important to you than your career growth.
Step 5
And finally, we crown our building with a golden dome - some highlight that will favorably set off your image. In a man, as in a woman, there must be some kind of secret, even if maybe you will not focus on it, as ladies sometimes do. Do not consider this a stupid pretense: secrets and secrets are the prerogative of not only girls, they can also help men very much. But, again, know when to stop, do not overdo it, otherwise the girl will not understand you. And the last thing: all of the above measures must be directly adjusted to the character and interests of the lady who is with you now. So, in an effort to interest a woman, first study her herself and then go on the offensive.
