At some point in existence, a person may be faced with the feeling that he has entered a dead end in life. Everything inside was upset: irritation overwhelmed for any reason or an incomprehensible indifference to everything in the world arises, for no reason at all pulls to howl like a wolf at the Moon, Earth, Galaxy, Universe, the whole World … palpably physical. There are no special reasons: the work is good, the salary is considerable, parties, feasts, entertainment on weekends, holidays with friends, colleagues, loved ones. Why did life become so bleak? How can this be changed?
How do you want to immediately get a ready answer. But the truth is: there are no ready-made solutions. Everyone finds his own answer, only for himself, and only when he is ready to accept it. You can only indicate a direction, a couple of search methods, a temporary pivot point.
In the state described above, it seems that going to the social bottom is inevitable, there is no way out, then an unpleasant thing happens: abnormal, inappropriate behavior manifests itself uncontrollably. People respond in response: he "got drunk", lost his mind, lost the purpose / meaning of life, "burned out" at work, and the like.
There are only two sentences, and they describe the death throes, which sometimes last for years and decades.
Those who want to help or show off their erudition, position a la "I'm in trend" (in the stream of fashion trends) begin to fall asleep with advice: you need to go on vacation, change jobs, find your destination, take new motivational courses, take up your favorite hobby. The advice is correct in private, but it is not applicable to this situation for a certain, quite tangible reason: there is no strength and there is no focus of attention on everything except your pain.
How to live on when there is no strength and desire for anything? There are millions of examples around: each of us makes a choice in every act, in every aspiration, but they all do not relate to the personality of the dead end.
To understand how to live further, and find the strength for this, you must first shake off the husk of all advice, opinions, ideas, decisions (because they were never personal) and dive deep into your own feelings. A person must start from the very first point - himself. He must find out: who he is, where he came from and where he is going. When a person learns this (some may take years), then he will build his own foundation, his own foundation, which will not only strengthen his position on Earth, but also open up many previously unimaginable possibilities.
Search and not back down. Walk in the mode in which you are ready, and do not rush. In our world, the rule clearly works: as soon as a person begins to search, information comes to him. You need to learn how to sort, filter, analyze, synthesize and draw conclusions based on the data obtained. Every day, engaged in searching and mental reflections, a person trains the ability to see, understand, distinguish more easily. Errors are a necessary and integral part of the life process - you need to handle them and not repeat them later.
Gradually, an understanding of how to live on will come, but this question will lose its significance, only being will remain real.
