This could be an ex-boyfriend or just a close friend with whom you can never be together. Despite the fact that the impossibility of being together has already been absolutely precisely determined, the girls still continue to check their phones to see if he has written.
No matter how beautiful he is, you need to stop thinking about him so as not to remain completely alone.
If you let go of it, stop suffering, focus on something else, the situation will change.
9 ways to forget about him
1. Stop texting him.
Let's start with the most obvious practical solution: stop texting him. When you send a message, you obsessively wait for his response. But there is no answer, and it infuriates you. You can stay in this state all day, and by the evening you can do something stupid, for example, write with anger, with threats, etc. And who needs all this? That's right, just not for you.
2. Don't try to understand him.
Do not try to understand what he thinks, and suddenly he still loves, or, on the contrary, why he does not. Do not analyze all his past words, what and how he said and why. People often lie about things to avoid hurting your feelings. Don't dwell on what he once said..
3. Remember that your thoughts are not facts.
Just know that what you think is not necessarily true. Quite often we hear what we want to hear, and not what is actually said. A person has a selective memory of how things happen. Accept that you may not know exactly what is happening in your situation and move on.
4. Think about what this situation has given you.
Every romantic and sexual experience is an opportunity for lessons to be learned. Try to understand what you did wrong or how to build relationships further so that they are not "empty".
5. Think about the future, not the past.
While you are trying to learn from what you did or didn’t do, don’t dwell on the past. You learn and then you move on. Think about the future. Otherwise, you can get stuck in the past for a long time, and time goes by and years go by. Don't waste time, build your future.
6. Talk to friends and girlfriends about your problems.
It's good that you share with someone close, this will allow you to look at the situation from the outside. At the same time, allow yourself to talk to your friends not about your own, but about their problems.
7. Get rid of reminders about him.
Do you often look at your phone looking at joint photos? Do you read messages? Delete it all. Having reminders about him at home or on the phone will not help, but will exacerbate the negative state.
8. Stay away from places that you often visit together.
Did you have something in common that only mattered to the two of you? Which bar or restaurant have you visited?
At least for now, you need to stop going to this place. Once you get rid of the obsessive thoughts of your boyfriend, you can reclaim this place as your own.
9. Find another.
Surely you have someone who wants to be around. Try hanging out with a new guy. It is not necessary to allow close relationships, although this is a good option, you can simply see in your life someone else who wants to take care of you.
All this will help to let go of both the guy and the situation associated with him. And then new perspectives will open. By the way, it may well be that the situation will change so much that you will still be together. Miracles happen.
