Situations constantly arise in your life when men leave you, sometimes without even explaining anything. But after all, you constantly showed them your love, took care of everyone and, forgetting about yourself, dedicated your life to them. Oddly enough, this boundless dedication is where your mistake lies, which stems from low self-esteem. You just need to learn to love yourself, not men, only after that you can count on their love.
Instructions
Step 1
Complete dissolution in a man is characteristic of those women who love themselves little. Because of this dislike, they do not take care of themselves, their appearance, their development at all and do not have their own life and interests. They quickly become uninteresting to their partner, because love is, among other things, trust and a desire to share with a loved one, discuss and receive advice, this is a full-fledged informational and emotional exchange that you just cannot offer your loved one.
Step 2
Love yourself for who you are. Suppose you have shortcomings, but their awareness gives you the opportunity to work on yourself and improve yourself in order to correct them. With this approach, these disadvantages become advantages. Do less self-criticism. Work on yourself and praise yourself for every small and insignificant, and at first glance, victory.
Step 3
Often, self-loathing is associated with one's appearance. But this is just ridiculous given the opportunities that exist today. Any flaws in the figure can be corrected either by choosing the right clothes or in the gym. If you do not like your face, then the advice of makeup artists is at your service. And in fact, look how many not very beautiful women do not seem like that at all, thanks to their charm and self-confidence.
Step 4
Do not engage in self-criticism and self-delusion, do not invent problems for yourself where they do not exist. Do not start to worry and get upset in advance, in anticipation of future troubles. Think about how to avoid or overcome them, set yourself up for the best, be optimistic.
Step 5
Do not get hung up on looking for a man, take care of yourself, find yourself an interesting business or occupation. You should be interested in being alone, then you will become interesting for the opposite sex. The requirements that you present to yourself will help you choose men more carefully, and not trust the first person you meet. In this case, you will have a much better chance of finding yourself a good kind person who can appreciate and gratefully accept your love.
