It happens that a girl is very beautiful, but still there is something so repulsive in her that it overrides all physical attractiveness. What qualities are we talking about?
Selfishness
At first, stories about what a wonderful person you are, how much you have achieved and done, may even play into your hands in communicating with an enchanted fan, but over time, listening to such stories still gets bored. But you refuse to accept the fact that someone might not be in awe of you and unwilling to support your ego. As a result, everyone around you turns out to be guilty, and you - offended by innocence, which these stupid fools terribly offended by their inattention.
Obsession with appearance
It used to be easier. Narcissistic ladies just constantly spun in front of the mirror and could not stop looking at their beloved, but now they cannot stop “selfie” and litter the feed with their magnificent pictures in anticipation of “likes” that will support their already problematic self-esteem.
Striving to prove something against all odds
You should not be surprised that relationships with people around you do not stick together if, instead of sincerely rejoicing for a person, you release a couple of barbs at him, and then at home you analyze for a long time why he is better than you and why you could not achieve this instead him, and then at the first opportunity do your best to "win", even to the detriment of yourself or others. Maybe it's time to reconsider the attitude?
Either everything or nothing
When you divide life into black and white, and human actions into good and bad, you close the door to warm feelings and relationships. The world consists of semitones and nuances, and the sooner you understand this, the easier it will be for you to live, and for people to communicate and be friends with you.
You are in charge
Letting people do what they want and think the way they want can sometimes be tricky, especially if you're used to keeping everyone and everything under control. Nevertheless, equality is an important part of interpersonal relations, without which you can not go anywhere. Stop "strangling" people with your total control, and communication with you will become much more pleasant.
