It's amazing how sometimes the most elementary problem, like choosing clothes for a job interview, can throw a person off balance and make them doubt their capabilities. There is one way to get rid of this deficiency - to develop determination in yourself.
Instructions
Step 1
Each person should not only be able to make independent decisions, he should also be responsible for making them. Indeed, often people cannot decide on something just because they doubt whether they made the right choice. They always expect someone to help them, push them to the right decision, or simply approve of their actions. When such an assistant is not around, they get lost and do not know what to do.
Step 2
It is necessary to cultivate decisiveness in a person from early childhood, giving children the opportunity to solve minor problems on their own. This will allow them even then to get used to the idea that the responsibility for the decisions made will fall on their shoulders, and then in adulthood it will not scare them so much. What should those who have entered an independent life without this baggage do?
Step 3
Make your own decisions as often as possible. Do not expect someone to help or approve of your choice. Just believe in yourself.
Step 4
Choose the methods by yourself that will achieve the goal. You should not ask for help, thereby shifting some of the responsibility to others.
Step 5
To develop determination in yourself, at first set yourself not very difficult tasks. After all, everyone knows: nothing lifts the spirit and self-confidence like the success of previously made decisions.
Step 6
If you need to solve a problem, think carefully and identify all possible solutions. After examining all of them, choose the best one for you and justify why you chose this particular option. This is a very important step as it is proof that you are right. Do not think about what others will think about it, do as you see fit.
Step 7
Exercise will not only help you stay in good physical shape, but it will also increase your determination by overcoming small obstacles during exercise. Only determined people can succeed in life. Those who have not learned to make independent decisions will live their lives in eternal doubts and hesitations. Doubt or Action? The choice is yours!
