There are people in this world who are able to solve even the most difficult problems, despite numerous obstacles. They succeed in everything and always. And they do not get their way by luck. It's all about thinking and the rules they follow.
To become a winner, you must first learn to keep your own promises. This is one of the basic rules. If you gave your word, then it must be kept. Especially if something was promised to himself.
There are other rules, thanks to which you can learn to win and move forward towards your own dream.
Life in reflection
All the people around you are your mirror image. They demonstrate those traits and personality traits that you possess, but do not realize it. For example, did someone get nasty at you and did it really hurt you? So in reality you also got into situations when you were ready to be rude to someone. Or they were already rude, but did not notice it.
The mirror rule can manifest itself in other ways. What you focus on will happen in your life. If you are constantly thinking negatively, be prepared for problems.
Do not be offended. First of all, it is worth analyzing your own thoughts and actions. If you want to be surrounded by kind, successful, energetic people, then first of all you need to become the same.
Choice and responsibility
Learn to take responsibility. Everything that happens in your life is the result of your choices and thinking, and not someone else's actions or decisions. Therefore, one must first of all criticize or make claims to oneself. You are the author of your own reality.
Winners don't berate themselves for past mistakes or wrong decisions. They understand that they acted on the basis of their own attitudes and values. Beliefs and principles change over time. And what was done earlier may become unacceptable at this stage. But this is an experience that everyone needs to acquire.
Take responsibility for your own decisions. Stop making excuses. Do not blame other people and life circumstances for failures.
Accuracy and Conformity
Do not assume that your decisions are one hundred percent correct and there can be no other opinion. There are always errors. In actions, in decisions, in analysis. You can't calculate everything.
You need to be flexible. The winner must adapt to the surrounding reality, to the changing rules. It is necessary to understand that there is an error in every action. It can lead to errors. But you need to be able to learn from any failure and keep moving on.
You get exactly what you deserve. No more and no less. It depends on your thinking, decisions and actions. The rule of conformity is manifested in all spheres of life. When you change your attitude to the events taking place, circumstances begin to change.
If you want a lot of money or a beautiful, strong and stable relationship, start living up to your desires.
Attendance rule
The past does not exist because it has already passed. There is no future either, because it didn’t come. There is only here and now. Therefore, give up past grievances and stop living in the future. Be in the moment.
The winner lives in the present, not past mistakes and fears of the future.
Conclusion
To acquire the psychology of a winner, it is enough to perform a simple exercise - "A week of victories over yourself." To do this, carefully read the above rules. Try to follow one of the listed recommendations every day. For example, on Monday you can introduce the mirror rule into your life, and on Tuesday you can analyze your actions and realize your choice.
