The desire to win is genetically inherent in man, since in the process of evolution those who aspired to become the best survived. As soon as we stop in our own development, we begin to degrade. What do you need to know to become a winner in life?
1. Set a goal for yourself and break it down into a number of specific tasks. The main criterion for whether you have won or lost this achievement of your goal. So, let's say our goal is to eat a sandwich. For this (task) you need to cut the bread and spread it with butter.
2. Control your actions. Ask yourself from time to time: “What I am doing now is bringing me closer to my goal or moving away from it”? If you find yourself oiling the table, even though you are good at it, you need to correct the situation.
3. Consider a fallback. E. Bern wrote that the winner knows what he will do if he fails to achieve the goal, while the loser only talks about what he will do when he reaches his goal. What if there is no oil? Will bread and jam suit you? If there is no bread, where and how can you get it?
4. Don't stop halfway and be persistent. Knock and they will open for you, they will not open the door - knock on the window, call on the phone, use any opportunity. You remembered that you saw the neighbor's bread - ask, is it over? - ask for money for bread.
5. Be flexible. If you knock on both the door and the window, but they don't open it, maybe it's just that nobody is at home right now, and you should come tomorrow? It is hardly appropriate to go to a neighbor at one in the morning.
6. Remember why and for what you are doing what you are doing, it will add strength to you and make you move on. Do you think that eating a sandwich is a very difficult task, which not many can afford and already want to give up this idea? Remember that then a feeling of satiety awaits you, will we still suffer hunger?
7. Improve yourself and learn from the best. Do not be afraid to play with a strong opponent, this will allow you to understand how and why he wins, and you can learn how to do it. Competing with weak people, we only strengthen the illusion of our own strength. You have tasted the most delicious and satisfying sandwich (with sausage) at a party - find out its recipe and bring the process of its preparation to perfection.
