It must be admitted that the word "I" in our life has not the last meaning. If you count how many times every day we use the phrase: I think, I want, I'm sure …
The person behind this "I" is the main character in the life of each individual. How we create our own world is determined by our experience, knowledge, worldview. We ourselves are the center of this world, and from this position we look and evaluate the reality around us.
We also evaluate ourselves, because no one knows us better than ourselves. But if we ask the opinions of loved ones about this, we may be surprised how different the view from the outside is! What is most important for one of us is a mere trifle for the other.
For example, a man's ultimate dream is a car, but there is not enough money to buy it. A friend also does not have a car, but this fact does not upset him at all. His thoughts are occupied with another problem: a seriously ill mother, an urgent operation is needed, and he needs to collect a large sum as soon as possible.
You need to reckon with your "I", you need to value yourself, appreciate, respect and accept your uniqueness. At the same time, do not forget that there are the same unique people nearby, with their beloved, important and unique "I".
Any conflict that arises between people is a clash of two “I”, each of which has the right to be heard and understood. And even if you think that your opponent is wrong, respect his opinion. The other person's point of view is just as valuable because it differs from yours.
Love and value other people, they are also unique and inimitable, they also have the right to their own opinion.
