When a person has a reassessment of values, he mentally analyzes his character traits, abilities and achievements. There comes a desire to change and improve something in yourself. However, what is the best thing to do: be yourself and perceive yourself as you are, or take an example from others?
Aligning with idols
It is worth noting that a lot can be learned from talented individuals. After studying the biography of famous and successful people, pay attention to the personal development path that was made, thanks to which the person achieved high results. It would be unwise not to take advantage of someone else's experience of the path to success and self-realization.
In addition, the activities of idols and the desire to imitate them can become a reliable motivating factor that can inspire and give the necessary strength to achieve their own goals. Therefore, if you are an ambitious enough person who wants to develop and improve, follow your idols and adopt their experience of creative and personal development.
There is no need to listen to the opinion of ordinary people, whose life is not distinguished by great achievements, career ups and happiness in the personal sphere. The only thing that does not hurt is to find out the opinion of your parents and closest people about yourself. But if you strive to imitate someone, then they should be really bright, talented and successful personalities. At the same time, you must certainly respect them and share the basic life views and beliefs.
Personal personality
Of course, taking an example from the mighty of this world is not a bad thing. Nevertheless, one must clearly realize that each person has his own destiny. The desire to be like someone whose personality traits are completely alien to you will only lead to the fact that you spend your life in pursuit of the ghostly ideals of another person. As a result, the understanding will come that you are deeply unhappy, and your life is wasted. Be very selective and selective in your desire to achieve other people's goals.
Most of all in every person his personal individuality and originality is valued. Love yourself and start respecting yourself at the stage of your life where you are now. Think of your flaws as individual traits and nothing more. It is possible to correct some problematic behavioral traits on your own, but some should be reconciled.
Set your own goals and strive to achieve them. Realize and be proud of your merits of character and achievements, try to constantly develop and expand your horizons. Learn the new skills you need to improve your quality of life. At the same time, be guided by your own point of view and do not take seriously the criticism of ordinary people. Someone like you no longer exists in nature: each person is individual in his manifestations, and this should be appreciated.
