Everyone has ever got into awkward situations or witnessed unpleasant scenes. In this case, the question may arise: "Is it worth interfering in someone else's life?"
If you find out someone else's secret, for example, you saw a friend's husband with another woman, you need to be very delicate. It is not necessary to speak directly about what you saw. You can start a general conversation about infidelity. Did your friend start talking about her suspicions herself? Do not refute her assumptions - this will give her the opportunity to reflect on this topic.
Relationships between spouses are already complicated? It is better to remain silent, so as not to push your friend to divorce, and so that later she does not blame you for what happened.
Do you see the children are suffering? For example, if a mother shouts at a child in a store because he grabs everything, you can conspiratorially tell him: “It says here that the goods cannot be touched - they will get mixed up, and people will not be able to find the desired product”. And you can praise the child in order to cool the irritated parent: the slow-witted should be called detailed, and the stubborn - strong-willed. Surely, the parent's anger will subside.
If conflicting parties turn to you for help, you need to be restrained and not show sympathy for one side or the other. In this case, you must act as a wise man and make a fair decision. If colleagues ask you whose project is better, tell us what you like about both projects.
If you do not want to participate in someone else's dispute, take a timeout to comprehend everything yourself and let the participants cool off. Perhaps during this time the situation will be resolved by itself. It's embarrassing to intervene in someone else's life, but it will have to be done if you find it necessary to intervene or if you are asked for help.
