Sometimes a person himself is the culprit of those troubles that happen to him. Somewhere I was in a hurry, did not think, overlooked, ignored the due amount of attention, showed irresponsibility … There are a lot of reasons. It is easiest to blame other people for everything, and much more difficult to deal with them on your own.
Instructions
Step 1
For a positive resolution of a difficult situation, you need to "feel" it. If you find it difficult to collect your thoughts, relax, draw a picture of the problem and appreciate its complexity. Determine the resolution paths. It is important that you understand who or what you are fighting with.
Step 2
Excessive emotions will only provoke unwanted processes. Keep calm. Remember that a cold mind, not a warm heart, will help you cope with the problem. Treat it with proper understanding and common sense.
Step 3
Do not run away from difficulties, but fight them. If it seems to you that they will resolve by themselves, you are mistaken. And your inaction will only make you more confused. Try to understand what you are expecting and what you can really count on in the end.
Step 4
Be more decisive. Don't pass your problems onto others. This is also not a way out of the situation and can lead to undesirable results: to aggravate the process or condemnation and misunderstanding from others.
Step 5
Do not lament about what would have happened if you had done this and not otherwise. Don't look to blame for your problems. Do not complain about life and eternal bad luck. Remember, everything is in your hands. Be confident in yourself. When you find yourself in a difficult situation, you will probably think that it is not more complicated and global. Far from it. Sometimes other people's troubles can serve as an excellent incentive to overcome their own.
Step 6
Act purposefully. Don't waste your time on unnecessary struggles. Assess your strengths and resolve the conflict in proportion to them. If you find yourself weak, don't be afraid to ask for help.
Step 7
After resolving the situation, draw a conclusion. Analyze the reasons for the problem so that you do not repeat your previous mistakes in the future. But you also need to be able to analyze. Blaming yourself for everything can undermine your self-esteem. Be objective about your actions and capabilities.
