There are survival schools in society, but there are simply general secondary schools in which everyone has to survive: teachers, children, and parents. It is much easier for adults to stand up for themselves in a critical situation, although it is very difficult when they have to communicate with children, and instructions should be drawn up for each of the parties separately.
Necessary
Patience
Instructions
Step 1
How to solve the problem if they are trying to make a "outcast" of you: they tease, they try to humiliate in every possible way, up to fights, beatings and theft?
If you are constantly teased, you need, oddly enough, not to react to hurtful words. Remember that this is a game in which you are chosen to be the “victim”. The more violently you react, the more joy you will bring to those who offend you. At first, everything can get much worse, since the guys do not want to just give up their fun. You will have to restrain your emotions constantly.
Step 2
If gossip is spread about you, then this is also a type of game when you are forced to defend the honor of your family or your dignity. As soon as you start to defend yourself, consider that you have lost. You need to react, but in such a way that the offender doesn't want to offend you. Ask the speaker: "Do you yourself believe in these rumors?" If the answer is yes, then let him do it, if he so wants. And that's all. Not a word more.
Step 3
If you were hit, but not too hard, then it is also worth keeping calm and pretending that you did not notice, if the blow turned out to be painful, then it is worth mentioning this, unless, of course, inflicting pain was the offender's goal, basically the goal is desire make you angry. Speak calmly. If it hurts a lot, or you need medical help, then you should contact an adult. Avoid really mean and dangerous children, teenagers, or adults.
Step 4
If something is taken away from you, or money is demanded, then ask to return the thing, or say that you would be glad to fulfill the request, but you cannot. If it is not returned, threaten with trouble. If this does not help, then you can turn to adults, as this already looks like stealing. Don't give money to anyone. Extortion is a crime and you have the right to tell adults about everything.
Step 5
Use a sense of humor. Try not to stoop to revenge on the offenders. This can cause not only a new wave of aggression, but also break the fate of some people. So you spend your life not on your hobbies and activities, but on thinking about those who are causing you trouble.
