You have been together for a long time and seem to be happy. And this "seems to be" - due to the fact that there are days when it seems to you that he does not treat you the way he should, that you deserve better. How to change his attitude towards himself, while your feelings have not become obsolete due to constant dissatisfaction with your partner.
Instructions
Step 1
Change your attitude towards yourself first. You may not be aware of this, but others treat you the way you allow. If you think that your young man does not respect you, then it means that at some point you allowed this disrespect - maybe you kept silent in response to his rudeness, or, even worse, decided that you deserved it?
Step 2
Improve your self-esteem, this can be done with the help of auto-training. Remember the heroine Irina Muravyova in "The Most Charming and Attractive"? You need, first of all, to believe that you are the best, then your young man will think about you and treat you accordingly.
Step 3
Take care of yourself - your appearance, figure. First, it never hurts. Secondly, taking care of your loved one will set you in a positive mood, and playing sports will bring inner harmony. Finally, by noticing improvements in your reflection in the mirror, you will increase your self-esteem several times faster, and he will not be able to fail to notice your self-confidence.
Step 4
Find a good job, meet your friends more often, show your boyfriend what a busy and interesting life you live. Let your day be scheduled by the minute, let them wait for you everywhere, and let you hurry everywhere. It is difficult to treat a passionate and busy person with disrespect.
Step 5
Talk frankly with your boyfriend and let him know that if his attitude towards you does not change, then you will be out of your way with him. Believe me, if he values your feelings, then he will rethink his behavior. And if not, then why do you need it at all?
