Dissatisfaction with external circumstances forces a person to act. However, the surrounding world does not always adapt to your interests and ideas, no matter how much effort you make. There remains only one solution, the most difficult of the acceptable ones - to come to terms with the situation.
Instructions
Step 1
Make sure you can't really do anything to fix the problem. Before you give up on improvements, you must know for sure that you have tried all the methods and made the best effort you could. Otherwise, you will constantly be gnawed by the feeling that you could still make a difference.
Step 2
Find advantages in the current state of affairs. Although the circumstances make you uncomfortable, something in your current situation should be beneficial to you. Look for as many positives as possible in your losing position. For example, after losing your job, you are deprived of a permanent income, but you get a lot of free time to implement long-delayed plans and deeds.
Step 3
Look ahead a little. Circumstances will change for the better sooner or later. The timing of these changes is not always, but often can be roughly determined on an individual basis. You can figure out for yourself when the unfavorable period will end. Until that time, gather strength and wait for a convenient moment in which you can express yourself brightly and change the situation.
Step 4
Treat the situation with humor and philosophical at the same time. Give the problem a touch of good humor. Although difficult, any conditions can be enjoyed and enjoyed. If you manage to adapt to the circumstances, then after a while you do not even want to change them for something better.
At the same time, perceive any phenomenon as temporary and transient. Agree, it is stupid to attach importance to a subject that exists today, but not tomorrow. It is all the more ridiculous to lament and indulge in despondency because of circumstances that do not suit you in some way, but will change, albeit after a very long time.
