Sociability is a very important criterion for a modern person, which contributes not only to the appearance of a huge number of friends and acquaintances, but also to career advancement. The inability to speak, to behave in a company with another person is a sign that you are not confident enough in yourself. Therefore, first you need to put an end to shyness and awkwardness and concentrate on the emotions that you experience when communicating with your interlocutor. They should not cause discomfort; on the contrary, you should only experience pleasant feelings.
1. Don't try to avoid contact with other people.
If you run away from conversations, behave awkwardly when you meet, then you need to think about your behavior. There is nothing wrong with talking to both a new person and an old acquaintance. Do not withdraw into yourself. Listen to the interlocutor, share your stories and impressions.
2. Do not walk with a stone face, smile.
It is always nice to see when the interlocutor shows positive emotions, this makes the conversation more open and sincere. Don't be overly serious. Make grimaces, laugh more, it will only benefit.
3. Don't wait for someone to come up to you to get to know you.
If you like a person, don't be afraid, take the initiative. Start with a simple "Hello, what's your name?" And then just continue the conversation. Talk about what interests you, but do not start talking about too narrow things, as your interlocutor may become bored.
4. Speak spontaneously.
You don’t have to think up topics of conversation all night. In real life, this will not look very natural. Act as if you are talking to your sister or brother. Do not make such a person an inaccessible idol of yourself.
5. Do not forget about such important elements as hugs, shaking hands.
It always improves contact between people and makes communication more lively. Show your feelings, open up your best. This is the only way you can imagine yourself as the person you really are.
