Any good skills need to be honed and bad habits eradicated. The same applies to the ability to communicate. Some people are used to being shy and don't try to change that. Ease of communication does not come just like that, here, as in any business, you need practice.
Instructions
Step 1
Imagine that your brain is a computer and you are a user. The brain, as it used to do, turns on the humility program every time you find yourself in a certain situation. Your task, as a user, is to stop the automatically running program. For example, when you come to a party, don't sit in a quiet corner, go straight to the center of the crowd. If you are in a company, do not be silent, ask the interlocutors a couple of questions.
Step 2
Talk to a stranger, it is better to let it be a casual passer-by. You will hardly meet him again, so feel free to practice your communication.
Step 3
Don't miss any opportunity to connect with people. If you are invited to a performance - agree, tell funny stories when you are in the company. Say hello to people you have crossed paths with often but have never said hello before.
Step 4
If you want to talk or get to know a specific person, but are embarrassed to do so, approach the people with whom it is easier for you to speak, chat with them. After this practice, the uncertainty will disappear.
Step 5
When speaking in front of an audience, do not memorize the finished text. It will look fake and uninteresting. It is better to refer to the records only to view the sequence of the material. Remember that the audience is interested in your successful performance, and some of those present would not dare to go on stage at all.
