Very often, in the company of their girlfriends, women begin to discuss husbands. And in most cases, things never go further than complaints about their soulmate. "Before the wedding, he was completely different!" they exclaim. And no matter how sad it is, but basically, women themselves are to blame for the negative changes in their husbands. Or rather, in her attitude towards him after the long-awaited marriage.
What is the problem?
After marriage, the woman herself changes. Her nagging, sometimes groundless, control, ignorance of the interests of her husband, cool his attitude towards his wife. And such a popular among many women, the manipulation of the husband with the refusal of sex, ultimately can lead to infidelity. But if a spouse supports, trusts and trusts in everything, encourages her man, then he has multiple incentives to perform feats.
If a woman takes on the responsibilities of her husband around the house, then the man simply loses self-confidence and, as a result, the desire to do anything at all disappears in him.
When a woman tries in every possible way to show her independence, ignores men's opinion, is insolent or rude, it is quite natural that he simply stops seeing her that charming, sweet girl. He stops making compliments, giving gifts, somehow delighting his beloved.
What to do?
When a woman sees dignity in her chosen one, she must certainly tell him about it, show how she loves him, and then her beloved's self-confidence will increase. It is worth noticing even minor positive nuances.
There are many examples when a man in his first marriage is a loser and a bum, in the second - the same person turns into an exemplary family man who seeks to provide all the benefits of his relatives. It is a woman who is able to instill in a man confidence in her abilities or finally take it away. A woman should first start educating herself, and only then, sarcastically notice her husband's shortcomings and dream of a better life. Since it depends on the woman whether peace and harmony will reign in the family or whether married life will turn into a constant war.
It so happened that it is inappropriate for a woman to play a leading role in the family. For a strong and full-fledged relationship, she must give the "reins" to the man for whom she so passionately and ardently dreamed of marrying. A man should always feel significant, otherwise, he may lose interest in the affairs and problems of the family
