A person is a social being, and someone else's hatred, in addition to specific troubles, can bring very tangible mental discomfort and negative microclimate in the immediate environment. But how do you know from whom exactly the flow of negative energy comes?
Instructions
Step 1
Pay attention to which of your friends or colleagues is happy about your failures and noticeably upset when you are successful? More often than not, hatred is caused by ordinary envy.
Step 2
Think, did you offend someone by accident or intentionally, did you make fun of someone without malice, but he was offended and harbored evil? Resentment is common in people with low self-esteem. Women often sin with it.
Step 3
Winners are not judged, the saying goes. How they judge! - refutes reality. They condemn, discuss, show skepticism and doubts that the victory was won honestly. Whom did you beat on a steep bend? Think, remember - he is a great candidate for your enemies.
Step 4
Who most often behind your back says nasty things about you? He is definitely your enemy, and in any team or youth get-together, information always leaks out, and there will certainly be a well-wisher who will tell you who, what and when said about you in your absence.
Step 5
Who loves to get you in trouble in the little things? For example, in the line at the buffet right under your nose to pick up your last favorite cake, although it is known that he himself is indifferent to sweets? There are many such non-judgmental trifles when people spend a lot of time around. And big hatred always betrays itself in small things.
Step 6
Who is sneaking at you to your boss and giving your secrets to your lover or sweetheart? Obviously not your friend and not a person to whom you are indifferent. This is the policy of the enemy.
Step 7
Who will never miss any embarrassing blunders in your looks, work, or actions? Who with visible pleasure "pokes you in the nose" each of your shortcomings? The person who closely observes you in order to find weak points is your enemy.
Step 8
Who causes your gut dislike? We inherited a subconscious instinct for the presence and attention of the enemy from wild ancient ancestors, whom it often did not just help - it saved lives. Sometimes you can feel danger with your back, turn around sharply - and meet eye to eye the enemy's full of hatred.
Step 9
Have you rejected the courtship of someone who found it offensive and demeaning? Former lovers and rejected pals are often your enemies.