If you value your loved one and your relationship, you probably wondered how to keep romance, freshness and brightness of feelings. Having managed to avoid routine and habit, even after many years of marriage, you will experience love and tenderness for your soul mate.
Instructions
Step 1
Establish family traditions that will help you express love for each other and bring romance to family life. These can be different little things, for example, touching notes on the refrigerator from the spouse who had to leave the house while the other was still asleep. Or a cup of tea and a blanket, with the help of which one who has returned late and is cold is kept warm. Have your own small holidays - the day of the meeting, the day of the first kiss, the day of declaration of love.
Step 2
Come up with your common secret, a special language with which you can communicate on the most intimate topics, even among a large crowd of people. Mystery and secrecy bring people closer together, and exciting words spoken in an unusual setting will increase your attraction to each other.
Step 3
Take good care of each other. Does your spouse like sweets? Before leaving the house, put a favorite treat in his pocket. Does your spouse have time to watch your favorite TV show? Record this episode for her and watch it in the evening. There is no need to look for expensive gifts for your loved one - let your romantic gifts be valuable because they come from your heart.
Step 4
Find common hobbies. Spouses can be completely different people, but there must be something that they can always do together. General entertainment will help diversify your life, provide a sea of emotions and good mood. And so that your loved one can be proud of you, do your own hobby. People tend to be fascinated by knowledge and skills that they themselves do not possess.
Step 5
After the birth of children, try to be not only parents, but also lovers. Very often, the desire to become an ideal dad and mom alienates spouses from each other. They begin to act more like partners than like a couple in love. Try to find time to be alone, ideally spend a day a week alone. During this time, do together what brought you joy when there were only two of you.
Step 6
Have a heart-to-heart conversation. It's great if in your soulmate you find an attentive companion and a sincere friend. Interest in your spouse's affairs is a great medicine for cooling relationships. Make it a tradition to discuss family issues together and let everyone have the opportunity to speak out and be heard.
Step 7
Keep winning each other over and over. Unexpected dates by candlelight, weekends spent together at the resort, etc. help to maintain romance. Please each other, and your romantic candy-bouquet period will never end!
