Ill-wishers are found along the path of every person. They like to question his potentialities, laugh at him, and sometimes openly try to harm him. However, you can always find effective ways to deal with them.
Identifying ill-wishers
Before you start fighting ill-wishers, you need to identify them. After all, it often happens that they are in the circle of relatives and friends. Moreover, when they say unpleasant things, it is especially difficult to hear them. If the remarks of close people suppress a person, if after them he gives up, then you need to face the truth and admit that these people are really ill-wishers.
However, no matter how difficult it is, it is worth thinking: what if they are still right? In this case, you need to think about what real obstacle may stand in the way of the goal and think about how you can overcome it. The required solution is almost always found.
It is often possible to very much harm a person by instilling in him your negative thoughts. In this case, you need to replace them with your own positive beliefs.
How to turn an ill-wisher into an ally
Since ill-wishers have always been and will always be, you should learn to just ignore them. They will not be able to harm the person who ignores them. If the negative comes from close people, whom it is impossible to ignore, it is better to lure them over to your side. You can simply agree with their statements and ask for help. Every person is pleased when his opinion is listened to. Most likely, he will gladly come to the rescue and will soon turn into an ally.
You can pretty much ruin someone's life by using only jokes and ridicule. In order to disarm the mocker, sometimes it is enough to laugh with him.
Sometimes it happens that people simply misunderstand the actions and actions of others, then their prejudiced attitude may be caused by a lack of accurate information. You just have to enlighten them about their actions and intentions. If you do this in a tactful, polite manner, a person's opinion can change, and he will change his attitude.
If it is not possible to convince a negative colleague or acquaintance, there is no need to quarrel, swear with him, and, moreover, move on to insults. You just have to go to the goal, not paying attention to it.
Unfortunately, ill-wishers are found in everyone's life. But this is just one of the many obstacles to achieving the goal. And, like any obstacle, you need to boldly overcome it. Anyone, even the most violent ill-wisher, if desired, can be defeated or turned into an ally.
