Sometimes a young man in his life faced such a problem as the fear of meeting a girl he liked. It would seem that he is not bad at all, he is confident in his position and status and has everything to make his relationship strong, with a certain base. But, as a boy, I got lost, forgotten, I could not … Fear of girls is explained by some psychological problems.
Why did the guy start to be afraid of beautiful women?
When considering the causes of men's fear of women, start with any guy's fear of being humiliated by rejection. Whatever the young man may be, but the principle of "taste and color …" has not been canceled. So male pride plays its role here. It is very important for a man to be a leader, to have a certain authority in front of the ladies, but upon hearing a refusal from them, he may experience negative emotions.
The second reason is the issue of financial insolvency. Seeing a well-groomed, using expensive cosmetics, decently and fashionably dressed girl, the young man wonders that his financial situation is much lower than her needs.
The third reason is the thought that she probably has someone. She is beautiful, she smells of charm and sophistication, so why should she be alone? Surely there is already someone who has taken a place in the heart of the beauty.
The fourth psychological barrier is the lack of confidence in one's appearance, in fact it is the fear of aesthetic inconsistency of the fair sex due to the style or the obvious cheapness of clothes, hairstyles, shoes, accessories, in some cases - in a car or apartment, which a young man has, who, like clothing, they show his external essence.
And finally, the last problem is the fear of intellectual incongruity. Everyone knows that the established opinion “All great people were men” makes some guys think that his companion should be at least less erudite than he is.
So a stumbling block arises when, in an outside conversation, it turns out that the lady is much smarter than the one who paid close attention to her.
How to deal with your fear of beautiful girls?
All the main reasons stem from fear and self-doubt. What is this uncertainty? This is an unverified answer. After all, he did not even have time to ask, find out, find out … He simply drew conclusions, brought his conclusions, compared them with a few facts and, taking a deep breath, went on.
Therefore, the main way to deal with all of the above reasons is to develop or awaken self-confidence, get rid of the fear of taking a minimal step towards.
After all, it is this step that will already eliminate some doubts, make it possible to think over a further plan to try to please the beautiful creature.
Whatever one may say, but the appearance, the amount of money and education are far from competitors of masculinity, nobility, physical and spiritual strength and, of course, male confidence!
