Nothing in life can be achieved without self-confidence. It is faith in yourself that helps you not to retreat and find the strength to move on. Self-confidence refers to acquired character traits, not innate ones. Rarely is someone so lucky that he does not suffer from complexes and over time does not become disappointed in himself. Self-confidence is formed through character, personal qualities and hard work on oneself. Therefore, it depends only on you how quickly you develop self-confidence.
Necessary
Willpower and desire
Instructions
Step 1
Don't forget about your successes. Very often people focus not on their own achievements, but on what they failed to do. Of course, this is not bad if a person wants to correct the situation and achieve what he wants, but when this leads to a decrease in self-esteem and self-confidence, real problems begin. Therefore, as often as possible, remember those successes that you can rightfully be proud of, or even better, write them down on a piece of paper and read it in the morning before the start of the working day and at night before going to bed.
Step 2
Don't beat yourself up for failure. After making a mistake, analyze what happened, correct what is in your power and move on. There is no point in constantly remembering what happened. What happened is gone. It is more important not to repeat your own mistakes and learn to avoid wrong decisions, but you should not be afraid to take responsibility either. There are no ideal people in the world.
Step 3
Don't live in the past. Don't expect everything to change tomorrow. Live today, here and now. The future has not yet arrived, and the past has disappeared beyond the horizon. If you constantly dream or think about how good it was before, you will not notice how life went. Nothing is more demoralizing than putting off your plans for tomorrow.
Step 4
Appreciate what you have. The greatest happiness of a person is always the ability to rejoice at what he has. It is not as easy as it might seem at first glance, but it is necessary for a fulfilling life. In addition, this will allow you not to be mistaken in choosing what you would like to get from this life. After all, sometimes people chase after what they absolutely do not need.
Step 5
Don't let anyone humiliate you. Neither loved ones, nor friends, nor relatives have the right to criticize your personal qualities. You can only criticize the actions of others when they directly affect someone's interests. Therefore, do not confuse the desire to help you with advice and rude interference in your life. Although usually advice should only be given to those who ask for it.
