There are no ideal people. Everyone - be it a man or a woman - is bound to have disadvantages along with advantages. One of the most essential, causing a lot of trouble in communicating with others, is the so-called harmlessness. She does not paint either the stronger sex or the weak. But, due to the greater emotionality of women, harm is mainly inherent in them all the same. How can you stop being harmful?
Instructions
Step 1
First of all, understand that the fact that you cannot find a common language with other people, has a bad reputation, are to blame. Alas, it is sometimes very difficult to admit this. Vredina usually convinces herself of the opposite: she is simply not liked because she is smart, talented, principled, accustomed to "cutting the truth." It is very easy to come to such a "logical" conclusion, only this is the very simplicity that is worse than theft.
Step 2
In the overwhelming majority of cases, those women who have serious problems either in their personal life or at work are harming. They seem to find an "outlet", feel relief, spoiling the mood of others. Acting according to the selfish rule: "If I feel bad, let others feel bad too!" Try to convince yourself that this behavior will not disappear, but only worsen. Wouldn't it be better to try to figure out what their reason is?
Step 3
Also remember that bad-willed, insecure people with extremely low self-esteem are usually bad guys. They gossip, say nasty things about others, inflate conflicts to please their complexes, which prevent them from living normally. Think: Is it really so nice to have a reputation for being a weak-willed loser?
Step 4
Shake yourself and convince yourself: you are the most ordinary woman who is no worse than others. You have not only disadvantages, but also advantages. Learn to get positive emotions from the most seemingly ordinary, everyday things.
Step 5
Smile often. Find yourself an interesting hobby, hobby. Do your best to boost your self-esteem.
Step 6
Remember the old truth: treat people as you would like them to do to you. Get out of your head the idea that there are only envious and ill-wishers around. It doesn't work that way. Learn to communicate correctly with people. The results will not be long in coming.
