For any person, parting is a tragedy. The pain of separation from a person who was so close quite recently often pierces the soul with a splinter that constantly reminds of itself. But psychologists argue that parting can be a great springboard to new happiness, if you treat it correctly.
If the breakup did not happen on your initiative, do not allow the thought that you are to blame for something. Words like "abandoned" should never be used. Throw things, and people leave.
Awareness of the reasons that caused it helps to survive the separation. This helps to avoid repeating the same mistakes in the future. Lovers often idealize each other, try to remake their partner, and as a result, they conflict.
Psychologists call a mismatch in beliefs about fidelity as another common reason for separation. Therefore, building new relationships should begin with a careful study by partners of each other's views and plans for life.
One of the biggest problems for those who have just broken up is the fear: "Will I ever be able to love again." Don't be afraid that love will never come back. If you loved, then you are capable of love. New feelings will appear, you just need to wait. And the one who was the object of these feelings, you just need to wish happiness - this is how they show sincere love.
When choosing a partner, people are guided by certain criteria. That is why our new satellites are often similar to the previous ones. When starting a new relationship, you should definitely decide which partner's shortcomings you are willing to tolerate, and which you will not be able to accept. This will help you avoid future disappointments and breakups.
